Today I'm sharing yet another testimony from a gal who is practicing the 
biblical mandate of headcovering.   I met Kathy on facebook and requested 
her permission to share it with you.  Her story begins with a question from her young daughter!   
Today - Kathy is joyfully obeying the scriptures in this area - 
even though she is 'alone' in her church.  Enjoy and be encouraged...
Three
 years ago, my then 11 year old daughter asked our pastor's wife about 
what Paul meant about modest dressing, roles of women and head covering.
  She told my daughter and I that these were "cultural" in nature and 
not a value for today.  Both my daughter and I felt that this was a 
rather lame answer to a heart felt question on my daughter's part.  My 
daughter and I talked about these issues together and decided that this 
could not possibly be truth.  How can we decide what is "cultural" and 
what is not.  What about order in the family, honoring parents, 
teachings on homosexuality, obedience to God etc.  If modesty and head 
coverings were "cultural" then why are these other issues not 
"cultural". 
...After this I was 
perplexed and disturbed by the answer we got from said pastor's wife.  
We attend a charismatic non denominational church in rural mid west  
Minnesota.... I began to study the scripture for answers and asked the 
Holy Spirit to direct my path and give me direction as to dress, and head coverings.  God had already dealt with me regarding obedience to 
Him in areas that are difficult, ie husband as head of family.  My 
obedience in the home has been a blessing and God has honored my 
obedience.  I was ready to take the next step.  The Holy Spirit kept taking me to
 1 Corinthians 11.  I said "No not that"  But God was not going to let 
me go that easily.  He nipped at my heels until I was convinced that He 
was directing my path in this.  I said "Ok' and my husband did not care 
one way or the other. 
I ordered a simple black snood and started 
wearing it about the house.  It was January when I started and wearing a
 simple indoor crocheted hat indoors and at church was not a far stretch
 for me.  As it is I am already kind of "weird' at church wearing mostly
 longer flowing skirts.  People probably just thought it was another 
"Kathy oddity" .  Wearing my scarf or wide head band etc began to feel 
so freeing and normal.  I felt that the Angels were honoring me, I slept
 better, felt my prayers were more earnest and felt a peace about my 
life.  I shared only with a couple people about my decision, they 
thought I was cracked although they did admit that it was a command in 
the bible.  A command that was "cultural in nature".  No one has asked 
me about it in 2 years!
  I felt that if I started telling people 
they would think I was being too conservative, or pious, or weirder then
 usual.  So, I just did not say anything and no one has asked.  I am the
 ONLY one in church who wears dresses 90 % of the time and  the only one
 who wears a head covering.  I feel a freedom in Christ and am at the 
age that I really do not care what people think of me.  The only one I 
need to honor is God then my husband....  Those of us ladies who have been called to
 obedience in head coverings need the encouragement of fellow sisters.  
We are bucking the trend not only in society but in our fellowships as 
well.  Rejoice dear sisters you are not alone, we have God and the 
Angels on our side!!!
God bless you Kathy!  Thanks for allowing me to share your story.
Friends - following Jesus can be lonely - but this life is but a vapor.
 And we are not truly alone at all.  ~Joyce
 
beautiful...thanks so much for sharing.I too am covered for the last 2 years, it is a very lonely walk,but I would not trade it for anything. God honors obedience.He also loads us with so many gifts as a result of being faithful to His commands.Blessings, Dawn E, Brown
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ReplyDeleteThank you for this post and the other testimonies. I too am the only one in my church who covers and the only one who wears dresses all the time. I feel so alone in my convictions.
TLCMOM - I too have stood alone in churches... it is doable - but must admit - not fun! And you're right - head covering does often time open a door to discussions of faith. I'm so encouraged by your boldness and faithfulness. If you care to share your headcovering journey/testimony with us on this blog - just let me know. I'd love to hear and share it!
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